On the other hand, it’s hard to know exactly whether one term will suit you.Įvery gender-fluid person is different, and every gender-fluid person’s experience of gender is different. On the one hand, this is great: It means you get to define how you express your gender. One hard thing about figuring out your gender is that gender means different things to different people. And, if you’d like, you don’t have to put a label on it at all! You get to decide which terms describe you the best.
The sex assigned at birth may not be a choice - but the labels you choose to describe yourself are totally up to you. How do you know which term best describes your experience?